Dirty questions to ask a guy that will turn him on.

Let’s get down and dirty. Use these questions to spark those naughty conversations. Ask for details. Get descriptive. He’ll be turned on in no time. Remember that your discussion should be open, comfortable and judgement-free. Providing a safe space to discuss non-traditional sex and kinks ensures an eye-opening conversation. Give it a try.

Imagine watching your partner having sex with someone else. What parts of it do you find hot?

If you and your partner had a threesome with a female, list 3 things you would like them to do to you.

What would you and a third person of the same sex do together to pleasure your partner.

Threesomes. Kissing or no kissing?  Why?

In picking a third for a threesome would you pick someone you know or a stranger?  Why?

On a scale of 1-5, how much do you enjoy giving head?

Describe your go-to moves (in detail) when eating pussy.

Group sex. What about it is the biggest turn on?  What would hold you back from trying it?

Would you have a threesome with a pre-op transsexual woman and let them fuck your partner?

Threesomes. Would you allow your third to be more endowed than you?

Full swap, same room. What would you say is the hottest part of it?

How many different female orgasms can you name? 

Have you ever had someone spit in your mouth?  Did you like it?

Golden showers. Would you rather give or receive?

Which do you find hotter? Your partner spitting or swallowing?

Describe one of the hottest sexual encounters you’ve had with your partner.  What was so amazing about it?

Describe one of the hottest sexual encounters you’ve had with a past partner.  What made this encounter so good?

What is something sexual you’ve done in the past that you’d like to do with your partner?

Have you ever made a woman squirt?

A woman squeezing her nipples and playing with her own titties while getting fucked. That’s hot?  I’d rather do it for her?  Turn-off?

Pre-cum. Let her lick it off?  Hot but leave it where it is?  Yuck?

Breeding kink. Do you think it’s hot when she’s extra wet with your cum inside her?

Visually, what’s the hottest place you can cum on your partner?

What do you think is the hottest part of a threesome with same sex?  Opposite sex?

Does your partner use toys on you?  Would you like them to?

Have you orgasmed while in a hot tub or pool?

Describe your technique when fingering her.

Does your partner like giving or receiving rim jobs? Which do you prefer?

What is the kinkiest toy you own?

What kinds of dirty talk make you hottest?

What are your hard no’s in searching porn?

Do you have favorite videos?  Have or will you share them with your partner?

Do you watch porn with the sound on or muted?

Describe a time that you orgasmed at the same time as your partner.

Do you use props/toys when masturbating?  If so, what do you use?

Have you ever suspected that a partner faked an orgasm?  Why?

What is the hottest part of going down on your partner. Give them details.

What is one sure-fire way you know will turn your partner on.

Describe one of the craziest things you’ve done during sex with your partner.

Describe one of the craziest things you’ve done during sex with a past partner.

What is the most unusual thing you’ve done to turn your partner on. Did it work?

When picking a third, would you rather pick or let your partner pick.

Will you kiss her if you’ve cum in her mouth?

Do you remember the first name of all the people you’ve slept with?  Last names?

Have you ever tasted yourself? Describe it.

Which one of you is louder in bed?

Have you or would you masturbate in front of your partner?

Does watching your partner touch themselves turn you on?  Tell them how you’d like them to do it.

Describe a wild session where you felt like you couldn’t look your partner in the eyes afterwards.

How long do you need to recover before you can go at it again?

Name 3 times you were insanely turned on with a past partner(s) and describe in detail.

Are you comfortable telling your partner your dirtiest turn-ons?

What sexual act have you done in the past that you’d like to experience with your partner?  Tell them about it.

Think of your last 3 partners. Tell me, in detail, something that was good about the sex.

You’re at a bar with your partner. Someone is clearly checking them out. What do you do?

Who gave you your first orgasm?  What do you remember about it?

Have you ever played with someone of the same sex?  Who was it and when?

Have you made anyone cum with your mouth/tongue/lips?

If you had 2 women at the same time, describe 3 fantasies you’d like to fulfill

A close friend and their (attractive) partner ask you to have a threesome. Would you say yes or no?  Why?

Your partner wants to try a cuck hold experience. Would you be willing to have sex with someone else while your partner watches?

You catch your friends having sex in their car after a night out. They don’t see you. Are you watching?

You and your partner are surfing chaturbate and they ask you to point out who you think is hot. Do you play along?

Your partner wants it rougher but you’re not comfortable inflicting more pain. Do you do it anyways?  Tell them how you feel?  Ignore their requests?

You’ve got some not-so-great smells coming from “down there”. How do you want your partner to tell you?

What sexual act have you done or had done to you that you were self-conscious about at the time?  Has your feeling about it changed?

Describe in detail to your partner something they did during sex that was extremely hot.

What is the most public place you would or have had sex?

Are you into or curious about sensory deprivation?  What about it turns you on?

Describe your kinkiest session or fantasy involving bondage.